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Tom Query

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Change Agent

Tom has had a wide-ranging life and career. He calls himself a Change Agent. He founded the Wellspring Counseling, Coaching and Transitions Center in Atlanta and presently works there. He worked thirty-five years as a Licensed Professional Counselor and Director of several Mental Health Centers and one stateside disability agency. He came to specialize in life changes, sexuality and gender. He has a long history of working with crisis and grief. He was one of the first mental health professionals deployed to New York immediately after 911. He has been a teacher, trainer, and advocate/ally for a wide range of marginalized groups. He is also an ordained minister, though he says he carries his collar in his back pocket. Earlier in his life he was a professional magician.

He has become a voice for caregivers of people with chronic health issues. He is married to the Founder/Director of the Georgia Ehlers- Danlos and hypermobility support group with over 1,500 members. He has a daughter, two grandchildren and 2 fur babies.

April 17, 2025

Top Therapists Share Tips for Surviving EDS (Ep 141)

What happens when illness hijacks your love story? In this raw and revealing episode, Dr. Linda Bluestein sits down with therapists and real-life couple Melissa Dickinson and Tom Query, who know firsthand how Ehlers-Danlos syndrome can test—and transform—a relationship. From secret diagnoses to …